The 90/10 Rule

So what is the 90/10 rule?? Well here it is....life is 10% of what actually happens to you and 90% what you make of those events. How you CHOOSE to look at the events in your life determines whether it is positive or negative. The beauty is that you do have a choice.

You are in a relationship and it ends. You can either view your self as a failure in love and not deserving of having a relationship or you can decide that this was not the person for you and now the way is open f0r you to meet the person that will really be a wonderful match for you.

If you are unhappy at work you can decide to stay and be miserable figuring better safe than sorry.... or you can trust that there is something better for you out in the world and leave your current job creating an opening for someone else who will really enjoy it.

This 90/10 rule can be applied to most anything in our lives. The choice is ours. That lets us start today looking at situations in a more positive light.