Appreciating the Living

I was having a conversation today with a new and already cherished friend. This is a women who is so attuned to the world around her and the energy that flowed as we exchanged ideas was simply uplifting.


One of the things we were talking about was not only the importance of appreciating those around us but how easy it is to take advantage of even the small opportunities...to acknowledge someone else for their achievements, the impact they have made on the world and on your life.


Often times this falls into the "I meant to" or "I will remember next time" categories and we have missed another opportunity to touch and enrich another human beings life. Life is unsure and yes at times it can seem even more so these days. Have you ever found yourself sitting at the wake or funeral of a friend or family member mentally beating yourself up for all the things you meant to say????


It is so easy to let someone know that they have made a difference and it has been noted. That they have added something of importance to the world or to your life just by being a part of it. Think not only of how that would affect someone by knowing that, but how it would enrich your life by passing that knowledge on.


We always have an opportunity to show our appreciation. It doesn't have to be big and grand and shout out to the world ( though if it's appropriate go for it). It can be small and simple and just whisper..."hey you matter and I am grateful to have you in my life."